Girl Crush

[Deathwolf]

ah alright and you are 15 right?Actually, i think age doesnt matter at all... As long as you don't.... lol i think you know what i mean xD 

[Patedj]

I agree with DeathWolf. Age has nothing to do with love. A new born loves his/her mother. So can 14 year olds.

I think that your father and Deathwolf are talking about empregnating her. I would intorduce you to him. Allow him to be fearful, and make sure the mother is there. The mother has to be there. If they like you everything should be ok.

Parents fear the worst. They understand that a young age mistakes are easy to make. What they leave out of the equation is that love is part of life. People get married at 14 in some countries.

To be completely fair, it really is not your responsibility to talk to her parents. She should, and you could talk to yours. You could even ask your parents to talk to hers, so that all of you can compromise on this new and important experiencce that all of you are going through. And of course you are allowed to have some alone time. It's crucial, and depressing if you don't.

You are intitled to be frustrated. Nonetheless, allow you to stay calm. Things change, and he'll come around when he sees his daughter distance herself from him. Allow her to understand that you feel that it would be unfair for her to be deceitful towards her parents, it's unloving. You prefer to be open and honest with her  loving and over protective parents. Even though, you prefer her to be honest, you are entitled to be with her and she is with you. Stay together. It's ok ( and secretly the parents are giddy about all of this " Oh! our daughter is growing up so fast!"). Stick with her, and stay loving towards everyone. She'll admire that in you and trust that you will do more intelligent and responsible acts such as that.

I wouldn't be surprised if in the next couple days or weeks that you get an invite. Beat them to it if you'd like, and invite them over for dinner or a cup of tea. They would like that! If they understand that they have no reason to be afraidm due to understanding where you are coming from ( your prarents), then they will be reassured and accept you and your new love.

They fear the wrost. That you'll impregnate her and ruine all of her oportunities and that you'll leave her and break her heart and perhaps traumatise her ability to be in a relationship. It's very common fear. You'll be the some what calmer when you become a parent but nonetheless, still feel uneasy :). Silly parents. They are fighting a war that they can't win! Love will always prevail! You have no worries to be concerned about. Stick to optimistic thoughts and you'll see that everything will turn out perfect. Start to fear and you'll see that your reactions concur.

Having said that, right now, everything is not ok, and what he is doing is unloving and over-selfish.

What does he do as a carreer? What does her mom do as a carreer?

[toonlink444]

dunno but I don't want to empregnate her. That will ruin any relationship we have. Plus she belives she needs to be married first and so do I. I told her to search her dads pockets because in my opinon what someone carrys can be important to their personality

[Patedj]

Wonderful idea! I'm so glad you have a team! Keep us posted.

[daijoda]

I told her to search her dads pockets because in my opinon what someone carrys can be important to their personality

We're playing amateur psychologists, aren't we? What if a wallet's found in one of those pockets, what could that possibly signify about the father's personality? If she's caught searching her dad's pockets, what kind of a first impression do you think you'd be making on the father?

[toonlink444]

Good point. It'a my opinon though and I wont force mine on you if you dont force yours on me

[hetoan2]

You shouldn't search his wallet. Not only is it an invasion of privacy, you probably won't find anything too incriminating. I don't think fathers carry condoms in their pockets... just sayin'.

[toonlink444]

I never said search the wallet. Plus I didn't say it as a command just a view of my view.

[hetoan2]

pockets/wallet :\ really?

[Bully@Wiiplaza]

I somehow get the feeling that Patedj registered at the wrong forum. :smileyface:
Read through everything xD

[James0x57]

Good to have a positive soul around. ;)

[toonlink444]

well what you guys think of what i think doesnt matter. yet we are going to meet at the movies without her parents permission. I don't want to see her get in trouble but I really want to see her outside of school. Love is hard when you're young

[Bully@Wiiplaza]

Love is hard when you're young

not only when one´s young...

[hetoan2]

yeah bully, you must be a whole lot older and more experienced at the game of love seeing as you're a good three years older than him >.>